Les r\u00e8gles de vie ou r\u00e8gles familiales repr\u00e9sentent les valeurs qui vous sont ch\u00e8res et que vous souhaitez que les membres de votre famille respectent. Elles ont pour but de vous permettre d\u2019instaurer et de maintenir un climat familial harmonieux :<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Politesse<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Respect<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Honn\u00eatet\u00e9<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Les r\u00e8gles de vie (r\u00e8gles familiales) doivent \u00eatre :<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d8 cibl\u00e9es par les parents car ce sont eux qui ont la responsabilit\u00e9 de la bonne marche et de l\u2019harmonie au sein de la famille;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d8 pr\u00e9sent\u00e9es aux enfants par les deux parents en m\u00eame temps afin de d\u00e9montrer clairement que les parents d\u00e9tiennent un statut particulier et qu\u2019ils assument leurs r\u00f4les parentaux;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d8 affich\u00e9es dans un endroit bien en vue de toute la famille (ex. cuisine, frigo, salle \u00e0 manger), \u00e0 la hauteur des yeux des enfants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Interventions : Il n\u2019y a pas de perte de privil\u00e8ge ou de cons\u00e9quence \u00e0 appliquer lorsqu\u2019une r\u00e8gle de vie (ou une r\u00e8gle familiale) n\u2019est pas respect\u00e9e. En effet, puisque les r\u00e8gles de vie concernent les mani\u00e8res de se comporter en soci\u00e9t\u00e9, il importe plut\u00f4t de souligner le non-respect ou l\u2019oubli de la r\u00e8gle et d\u2019indiquer clairement le geste ou l\u2019attitude \u00e0 adopter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
ASTUCES :<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 \u00c9viter, autant que possible, de regarder dans les yeux lorsque l\u2019enfant est opposant car cela risque de provoquer une escalade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Se contenter de regarder la r\u00e8gle et de la pointer du doigt. Exemple : En cas de non-respect d\u2019une ou des r\u00e8gles, le parent am\u00e8ne l\u2019enfant face \u00e0 l\u2019affiche des r\u00e8gles, montre du doigt la r\u00e8gle non respect\u00e9e et dit calmement, par exemple : \u00ab Regarde. Voici la r\u00e8gle. Tu as oubli\u00e9 ou n\u00e9glig\u00e9 cette r\u00e8gle. Tu dois, comme tous les autres membres de la famille, respecter chaque r\u00e8gle.\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Nommer le comportement attendu. Quand l\u2019enfant d\u00e9montre qu\u2019il a compris et accepte votre intervention (accord verbal, excuse spontan\u00e9e, int\u00e9r\u00eat visuel pour la r\u00e8gle, attitude calme), lui nommer le type de comportement que vous attendez, par exemple :<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00ab Maintenant, tu peux retourner calmement dans le salon et demander poliment la t\u00e9l\u00e9commande \u00e0 ton fr\u00e8re en disant SVP.\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cibler 2 ou 3 r\u00e8gles maximum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d8 Adolescents & enfants qui savent lire : inscrire la r\u00e8gle en un seul mo t<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d8 Enfants qui savent lire & enfants en bas \u00e2ge : jumeler la r\u00e8gle avec un pictogramme (le placer juste en dessous de la r\u00e8gle).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Exemple de tableau \u00e0 afficher<\/p>\n\n\n\n Les r\u00e8gles de vie ou r\u00e8gles familiales repr\u00e9sentent les valeurs qui vous sont ch\u00e8res et que vous souhaitez que les membres de votre famille respectent. Elles ont pour but de vous permettre d\u2019instaurer et de maintenir un climat familial harmonieux : \u2022 Politesse \u2022 Respect \u2022 Honn\u00eatet\u00e9 Les r\u00e8gles de vie (r\u00e8gles familiales) doivent \u00eatre : 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<\/td> \u2022 Je dis SVP & Merci \u2022 J\u2019utilise un ton calme \u2022 Je m\u2019excuse \u2022 J\u2019adopte une attitude correcte (mimiques et gestes)<\/td><\/tr> Respect<\/td> \u2022 Dans mes paroles \u2022 Dans mes gestes \u2022 Dans mon attitude<\/td><\/tr> Honn\u00eatet\u00e9<\/td> \u2022 Je dis la v\u00e9rit\u00e9 \u2022 J\u2019avoue mes torts \u2022 J\u2019accepte la responsabilit\u00e9 de mes gestes, de mes paroles<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"