{"id":621,"date":"2024-06-09T15:48:10","date_gmt":"2024-06-09T13:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lacabaneauxmilleet1couleursgmail.com\/?p=621"},"modified":"2024-11-23T12:25:04","modified_gmt":"2024-11-23T11:25:04","slug":"le-top-trouble-dopposition-avec-provocation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lacabaneauxmilleet1couleurs.fr\/index.php\/2024\/06\/09\/le-top-trouble-dopposition-avec-provocation\/","title":{"rendered":"LE TOP, TROUBLE DE L&rsquo;OPPOSITION AVEC PROVOCATION"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Le TOP n\u2019est pas un trouble sp\u00e9cifique du TDAH,<\/strong> mais lorsqu\u2019il y est associ\u00e9, il alourdit consid\u00e9rablement la probl\u00e9matique de l\u2019enfant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Il s\u2019agit d\u2019un comportement d\u2019opposition au cadre instaur\u00e9 par l\u2019adulte. L\u2019enfant va tester les limites et les remettre en question \u00e0 la moindre nuance, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 en faire perdre ses moyens \u00e0 l\u2019adulte. Il tente de prendre le contr\u00f4le en argumentant, en s\u2019opposant passivement et en testant la capacit\u00e9 du parent \u00e0 l\u2019encadrer et \u00e0 assumer son autorit\u00e9 parentale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; L\u2019autorit\u00e9 parentale mise en jeu ici n\u2019est pas une intervention drastique et s\u00e9v\u00e8re. Il s\u2019agit de savoir <strong>dire stop et non sans avoir \u00e0 se justifier<\/strong>. Pour cela, il est important d\u2019\u00eatre carr\u00e9 dans les r\u00e8gles instaur\u00e9es, les appliqu\u00e9es toujours de la m\u00eame mani\u00e8re, d\u2019\u00eatre clair dans vos exigences et vos valeurs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Il est important que votre enfant comprenne que vous \u00eates son parent, pas son ami. Et que m\u00eame si vous passez des bons moments, que vous savez vous amuser avec lui, il ne doit pas oublier qu\u2019il ne doit pas vous abordez comme il le fait avec ses amis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Imposer ces limites a toute son importance sur le long terme<\/strong>. Cela va apprendre \u00e0 votre enfant \u00e0 pouvoir s\u2019autonomiser dans sa vie d\u2019adulte, accepter les limites (en tant qu\u2019automobiliste par exemple), savoir ce qu\u2019on attend de lui dans le monde du travail et assumer ses responsabilit\u00e9s.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Le TOP n\u2019est pas un trouble sp\u00e9cifique du TDAH, mais lorsqu\u2019il y est associ\u00e9, il alourdit consid\u00e9rablement la probl\u00e9matique de l\u2019enfant. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Il s\u2019agit d\u2019un comportement d\u2019opposition au cadre instaur\u00e9 par l\u2019adulte. L\u2019enfant va tester les limites et les remettre en question \u00e0 la moindre nuance, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 en faire perdre ses moyens \u00e0 l\u2019adulte. 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